Posted by xgirl on October 19, 2009, 8:46 pm
I have a hard time believing I will ever find someone who loves me and my two girls (ages 2.5 and 4). I feel like I just have too much baggage and who would want to go from being a single person to someone who has to deal with 3 additional people.
So I have a question, and please be honest. Would you be willing to be with a person that has children? Is that a deal-breaker to you?
I am in therapy for my self-loathing tendencies by the way. I love my kids and would never regret having them, but I sometimes feel like I will never meet someone who is amazing and perfect for me because of that.
The GF who I've loved madly is leaving me for a silly thing that happened. She seemed to love the girls but never really seemed interested in being more than an occasional playmate. I couldn't see her wanting to live with the 3 of us. So maybe it's best that my soon-to-be-ex GF is on her way out the door.
I hope to find "the one", but I'm feeling like maybe that person doesn't exist. I thought my GF was "it", but I guess she isn't. I'm sad.
thanks for letting me get that out.
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