Posted by Amy on October 19, 2009, 7:03 pm, in reply to "Re: Cherish time together"
Is one vow more sacred than another? Didn't you make a vow not to cheat too? I'm just wondering why one vow is more valuable (not divorcing) than another (cheating)? Maybe you have an open marriage? Maybe this is something you can live with while divorce is not.
I'm sure you will make whichever decisions are the ones that are right for you at the moment. But I do wonder how one vow is more important than another? I do respect the vow thing, which is why I'm curious about this.
--Previous Message--
: Hi Amy,
: I respect what you're saying and obviously
: your decision has worked for you. Fo me, I
: made a vow and I'm doing the best I can to
: be happy and enjoy myself. Live for today,
: have hope in tomorrow and never let your
: dreams die. Take care.
:
: --Previous Message--
: I left my marriage a long time ago and now
: live full time with my GF. I still cherish
: each moment but no longer have the sadness
: at the end. Nobody knows just how long we
: have on this earth and each day is a gift.
: That's part of why I chose to spend my time
: wisely with the one I love, watching young
: friends die unexpectedly has a way of
: reminding me not to live with crap today in
: hopes of a better tomorrow.
:
: You are right, cherish your moments. We're
: only one heartbeat away from death, we just
: don't know which heartbeat it will be.
:
: P.S. I do plan for tomorrow, but I don't
: procrastinate when it comes to love and
: happiness. Things can be replaced, time
: cannot.
:
: --Previous Message--
: Was with my gf yesterday afternoon, we
: really
: enjoyed each other. It's so hard when our
: "time is up," and we have to go
: back to our own separate lives. It makes me
: realize and truly cherish our time together.
: She is so much younger and I'm the married
: one, so I'm sure you understand how special
: our time is when we do get it. If you're in
: my situation, I'm sure you also understand
: how fast that time goes by. I cherish every
: second and hope she'll be with me for a long
: time. Thanks for the ears! xo
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