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Hi ozgirl - fallen62 November 6, 2009, 1:13 am
0 responses
LC - amyruby November 5, 2009, 10:50 pm
2 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 12:34 pm
- Re: LC - LC November 6, 2009, 7:44 am
  - Re: LC - amyruby November 6, 2009, 12:34 pm
Autumn Mom - KatyD November 5, 2009, 9:30 pm
3 responses, latest posted Today, 12:01 am
- Re: Autumn Mom - autumn_mom November 6, 2009, 5:06 pm
  - Re: Autumn Mom - KatyD November 6, 2009, 11:43 pm
    - Re: Autumn Mom - autumn_mom Today, 12:01 am
song for everyone - tennismom November 5, 2009, 8:40 pm
4 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 10:16 am
- thanks t-mom n/t - curious November 5, 2009, 8:51 pm
- thanks, TM - tinganting November 6, 2009, 6:29 am
  - Re: hi tin - tennismom November 6, 2009, 10:16 am
- Thanks Tmom. keep them coming ; ) n/t - alexdelroy November 6, 2009, 7:29 am
Vacation houses/cabins....whatev - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 5:57 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 7:37 pm
- Why don't you check out VRBO.com - Whit - want2bfree November 5, 2009, 6:23 pm
  - Good suggestion WHIT - tinganting November 6, 2009, 6:30 am
- Re: Vacation houses/cabins....whatev - JDG25 November 6, 2009, 7:37 pm
I Met This Woman at the Gym - HPLaserJet November 5, 2009, 2:17 pm
5 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 9:01 pm
- Re: I Met This Woman at the Gym - TJ November 5, 2009, 3:44 pm
- Re: I Met This Woman at the Gym - HPLaserJet November 5, 2009, 8:07 pm
  - Re: I Met This Woman at the Gym - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 8:13 pm
- What a conflicting spot to be in - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 8:31 pm
- Re: I Met This Woman at the Gym - KatyD November 5, 2009, 9:01 pm
To JB - Sam November 5, 2009, 1:47 pm
2 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 12:28 pm
- Sam - JB November 5, 2009, 2:32 pm
  - Re: Sam - Sam November 6, 2009, 12:28 pm
She's sorry - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 1:45 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
- Re: Her choice? - ayzika November 5, 2009, 1:54 pm
  - Re: Her choice? - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
- Re: Her choice? - Hope November 5, 2009, 3:26 pm
Picked up enrollment forms... - silentlyexploding November 5, 2009, 1:37 pm
8 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 10:28 am
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - Virago November 5, 2009, 1:42 pm
  - Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - silentlyexploding November 5, 2009, 3:50 pm
- you go, SE - ayzika November 5, 2009, 1:45 pm
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - truetomyself November 5, 2009, 4:03 pm
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 5:04 pm
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - KatyD November 5, 2009, 9:19 pm
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - amyruby November 5, 2009, 9:53 pm
- Re: Picked up enrollment forms... - NS November 6, 2009, 10:28 am
Check out this band -- Men -- saw them in concert, AWESOME and GAY! - xgirl November 5, 2009, 12:45 pm
0 responses
please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 12:41 pm
15 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 10:38 am
- Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - xgirl November 5, 2009, 12:46 pm
  - OandR - curious November 5, 2009, 1:32 pm
    - Re: OandR - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 3:19 pm
      - okay OandR - curious November 5, 2009, 4:05 pm
- Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - Virago November 5, 2009, 1:32 pm
  - Virago, you're so cool - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 3:15 pm
- Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 1:37 pm
  - Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 2:56 pm
    - Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 5, 2009, 4:58 pm
      - OR do you think you are feeling yourself you are looking hottie - want2bfree November 5, 2009, 6:18 pm
        
        Virago - you just make me hot you have such a way with words - want2bfree November 5, 2009, 6:20 pm
      - Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 5, 2009, 8:48 pm
        
        Re: please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before - scaredtobeme November 5, 2009, 11:47 pm
        
        Yep, me too. - meadow November 6, 2009, 9:15 am
        
        Me, three? :D - verna November 6, 2009, 10:38 am
H is becoming frustrated - scaredtobeme November 5, 2009, 12:14 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 5:52 pm
- Re: H is becoming frustrated - seeking peace within November 5, 2009, 12:27 pm
- Re: H is becoming frustrated - xgirl November 5, 2009, 12:35 pm
- Re: H is becoming frustrated - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 5:52 pm
H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:24 am
15 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 12:37 pm
- gg - ayzika November 5, 2009, 10:29 am
  - Re: gg - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:54 am
    - Re: gg - stumped November 5, 2009, 11:22 am
- Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - Consumed November 5, 2009, 10:32 am
  - Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:58 am
    - Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - Consumed November 5, 2009, 11:10 am
    - Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - ayzika November 5, 2009, 11:15 am
- Awe gg - stumped November 5, 2009, 10:40 am
  - Re: Awe gg - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:56 am
    - No I don't think it is selfish gg. - stumped November 5, 2009, 11:20 am
- thanks. . . - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 11:36 am
- Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - Cuddlez November 5, 2009, 11:51 am
- I went through this too - upsidedown November 5, 2009, 11:58 am
- going through some of the same things - Roxanne November 5, 2009, 12:02 pm
- Re: H dating other women and my green-eyed monster - xgirl November 5, 2009, 12:37 pm
HELP!!...Here's my story (sorry so long) - him or her November 5, 2009, 10:07 am
5 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 11:27 am
- Re: HELP!!...Here's my story (sorry so long) - xgirl November 5, 2009, 12:41 pm
  - Re: HELP!!...Here's my story (sorry so long) - Nickie November 5, 2009, 5:02 pm
    - Nickie - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 5:59 pm
- Re: HELP!!...Here's my story (sorry so long) - meadow November 6, 2009, 10:12 am
- Re: HELP!!...Here's my story (sorry so long) - NS November 6, 2009, 11:27 am
living in present vs. what-if's of the future - - a couple of questions - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:06 am
9 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 10:18 am
- If it's not to much to ask... - If I were a boi November 5, 2009, 10:16 am
  - Re: If it's not to much to ask... - glittergirl November 5, 2009, 10:46 am
    - mornin boi gonna help ya out here. - stumped November 5, 2009, 11:27 am
      - Mornin Beck... - If I were a boi November 5, 2009, 11:30 am
      - Re: mornin boi gonna help ya out here. - Kid November 5, 2009, 11:42 am
      - Thanks Beck! - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 11:50 am
      - Way to go, Beck! n/t - amyruby November 5, 2009, 12:51 pm
      - Re: mornin boi gonna help ya out here. - Chameleon November 6, 2009, 5:12 am
      - Re: mornin boi gonna help ya out here. - meadow November 6, 2009, 10:18 am
SPW...thank you - Boing November 5, 2009, 10:05 am
1 response, posted November 5, 2009, 12:33 pm
- anytime-- I can - seeking peace within November 5, 2009, 12:33 pm
moon - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:53 am
1 response, posted November 5, 2009, 12:39 pm
- ayzika - seeking peace within November 5, 2009, 12:39 pm
Hypothetical about saving the marriage - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:02 am
23 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 12:50 pm
- consider this... - moon 2008 November 5, 2009, 9:38 am
  - moon - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:40 am
    - Re: moon - moon 2008 November 5, 2009, 9:42 am
      - Re: moon - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:48 am
        
        Re: moon - moon 2008 November 5, 2009, 9:50 am
        
        Re: moon - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:56 am
        
        AY- this is a msg i need to hear repeatedly til i finally get it - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 4:28 pm
      - also... - moon 2008 November 5, 2009, 9:48 am
        
        Keep going Ayz - ILove November 5, 2009, 11:19 am
        
        Hell yes I leave the marriage that second and none later!! - stumped November 5, 2009, 11:29 am
  - Well that's the $64,000 question, aint it? - JB November 5, 2009, 12:55 pm
    - because you are helping ppl! - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 4:21 pm
- Re: Hypothetical about saving the marriage - autumn_mom November 5, 2009, 6:19 pm
  - Re: Hypothetical about saving the marriage - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:20 pm
  - Re: Hypothetical about saving the marriage - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 9:55 pm
  - Thank you for that post, autumn_mom. n/t - amyruby November 5, 2009, 10:06 pm
    - Ay and moon - want2bfree November 6, 2009, 12:35 am
  - i assert being gay in a het marriage is a challenge unlike any other - curious November 6, 2009, 7:34 am
  - Titanic Marriages! - Real Deal November 6, 2009, 8:17 am
    - RD - ayzika November 6, 2009, 8:44 am
      - Re: AY - Real Deal November 6, 2009, 10:10 am
      - Re: RD - Kid November 6, 2009, 12:50 pm
- Re: Hypothetical about saving the marriage - meadow November 6, 2009, 8:32 am
telling teens, help needed please - ozgirl November 5, 2009, 7:55 am
4 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 6:10 am
- Re: telling teens, help needed please - BeeBee November 5, 2009, 10:55 am
  - Re: telling teens, help needed please - splotches November 5, 2009, 1:10 pm
    - Re: telling teens, help needed please - fallen62 November 6, 2009, 1:09 am
      - Re: telling teens, help needed please - happily ever after November 6, 2009, 6:10 am
question for married women - him or her November 5, 2009, 7:21 am
4 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 5:58 am
- additional question - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:07 am
  - you are right. - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 10:23 am
  - YES AYZIKA!!! YES - seeking peace within November 5, 2009, 12:42 pm
- Re: question for married women - happily ever after November 6, 2009, 5:58 am
Does anyone keep in touch with Sandy? - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 6:58 am
0 responses
friendship - curious November 5, 2009, 6:22 am
4 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 1:15 pm
- Heehee - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 6:41 am
  - FUNNY - tinganting November 5, 2009, 6:46 am
    - cure - stumped November 5, 2009, 11:31 am
      - hey now stumpieroos - curious November 5, 2009, 1:15 pm
sexual orientation and sex - sunflower577 November 5, 2009, 5:31 am
5 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:28 pm
- Re: sexual orientation and sex - PD November 5, 2009, 6:10 am
  - Re: sexual orientation and sex - mom23 November 5, 2009, 7:02 am
    - I agree you would have to go back and read one of Joanne's post - want2bfree November 5, 2009, 12:16 pm
- Re: sexual orientation and sex - Roxanne November 5, 2009, 12:16 pm
- Re: sexual orientation and sex - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:28 pm
Mornin' AJers Some music to start your day. Play it loud - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 5:10 am
26 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 9:50 pm
- Thats right. I said 'Eighties' - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 5:22 am
  - Shout - tinganting November 5, 2009, 11:40 am
    - another "Shout" - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 11:50 am
- another "oldie" - tinganting November 5, 2009, 6:31 am
  - love floyd - tinganting November 5, 2009, 9:20 am
    - Re: love floyd - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 10:12 am
- awesome ladies! And another..... - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 6:39 am
  - Re: awesome ladies! And another..... - rosebud November 5, 2009, 7:24 am
    - Re: awesome ladies! And another..... - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 7:35 am
  - Re: awesome ladies! And another..... - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 7:32 am
- another - rosebud November 5, 2009, 7:26 am
  - Re: another - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 7:35 am
- Re: Mornin' AJers Some music to start your day. Play it loud - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 7:37 am
  - Flashdance Vid - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 3:58 pm
    - Re: Flashdance Vid - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 7:48 pm
      - Wanna come dancing with me OTOS? - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 7:59 pm
        
        Re: Wanna come dancing with me OTOS? - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 8:19 pm
        
        Naked dancing? - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 8:33 pm
        
        Re: Naked dancing? - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 9:50 pm
- i remember making out to this song~ among others - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 7:46 am
  - my fav gettin high song from the teeny years - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 7:48 am
    - my soul bleeds with this one - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 7:56 am
- the song that inspired me to learn guitar - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 11:54 am
  - Re: the song that inspired me to learn guitar - ontheotherside November 5, 2009, 12:09 pm
    - Re: the song that inspired me to learn guitar - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 4:18 pm
      - Re: the song that inspired me to learn guitar - obsessedandrestless November 5, 2009, 4:35 pm
I'm so ... - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 2:59 am
12 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 3:34 pm
- Re: I'm so ... - Consumed November 5, 2009, 6:06 am
  - Re: I'm so ... - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 9:30 am
    - Re: I'm so ... - ayzika November 5, 2009, 9:38 am
      - Postings - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 10:46 am
- Re: I'm so ... - Hope November 5, 2009, 8:16 am
  - Thanks - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 10:40 am
    - Re: Thanks - mystic November 5, 2009, 11:56 am
      - Re: Thanks - mystic November 5, 2009, 11:57 am
    - Re: Thanks - Hope November 5, 2009, 12:03 pm
      - Feelings - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 1:04 pm
        
        Re: Feelings - Hope November 5, 2009, 3:13 pm
        
        Done that - Sweetserine November 5, 2009, 3:34 pm
nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 2:20 am
2 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 11:35 am
- Re: nt - alexdelroy November 5, 2009, 3:45 am
  - Re: nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 11:35 am
BREAK--sorry I missed you.. - seeking peace within November 5, 2009, 1:42 am
0 responses
nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:24 am
6 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 11:33 am
- n/t - FunSomeDay November 5, 2009, 1:37 am
  - nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:43 am
    - n/t - FunSomeDay November 5, 2009, 2:10 am
      - nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 2:25 am
        
        Re: nt - FunSomeDay November 5, 2009, 4:03 am
        
        Re: nt - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 11:33 am
Needing some help! - Looking Forward November 4, 2009, 9:11 pm
8 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 9:48 am
- Re: Needing some help! - KatyD November 5, 2009, 12:31 am
  - Re: Needing some help! - Looking Forward November 5, 2009, 5:52 am
- Re: Needing some help! - PD November 5, 2009, 6:27 am
  - Re: Needing some help! - Looking Forward November 5, 2009, 7:18 am
- Maybe it was her husband - JB November 5, 2009, 7:23 am
  - Re: Maybe it was her husband - Looking Forward November 5, 2009, 7:34 am
- Re: Needing some help! - Hope November 5, 2009, 9:20 am
  - Re: Needing some help! - Looking Forward November 5, 2009, 9:48 am
How do I live this life? - Chocolate Lover November 4, 2009, 4:53 pm
10 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 12:51 pm
- Welcome - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 5:15 pm
- Re: How do I live this life? - Hope November 4, 2009, 6:08 pm
- Re: How do I live this life? - LifeIsEasy November 4, 2009, 6:39 pm
- welcome c lover - curious November 4, 2009, 7:02 pm
  - Re: welcome c lover from Whit - want2bfree November 4, 2009, 8:43 pm
- Re: How do I live this life? - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 10:12 pm
- Re: How do I live this life? - Portia November 4, 2009, 11:30 pm
  - Re: How do I live this life? - KatyD November 5, 2009, 1:14 am
- Re: How do I live this life? - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 7:04 am
- Re: How do I live this life? - happily ever after November 5, 2009, 12:51 pm
Pointing fingers - JB November 4, 2009, 4:15 pm
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 9:00 pm
- Re: Pointing fingers - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:00 pm
An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - ayzika November 4, 2009, 4:08 pm
14 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 8:08 am
- good points ayz - curious November 4, 2009, 7:05 pm
- Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 10:40 pm
- BUT I have to ask .... - KatyD November 4, 2009, 11:38 pm
  - Re: BUT I have to ask .... - ILove November 5, 2009, 5:40 am
    - Re: BUT I have to ask .... - him or her November 5, 2009, 7:42 am
  - katyD - ayzika November 5, 2009, 8:42 am
  - Re: BUT I have to ask .... - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 10:13 pm
- Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - bj November 5, 2009, 6:39 am
  - BJ - tinganting November 5, 2009, 6:43 am
  - Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - rosebud November 5, 2009, 8:20 am
    - yep agree - curious November 5, 2009, 6:40 pm
- Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:12 pm
  - Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - Hope November 6, 2009, 7:12 am
    - Re: An alternate take on "saving the marriage" - backwardstoad November 6, 2009, 8:08 am
If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - JB November 4, 2009, 3:44 pm
23 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 7:50 am
- you would certainly think - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:57 pm
- Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - truetomyself November 4, 2009, 3:59 pm
  - good for you, TTM! - ayzika November 4, 2009, 4:02 pm
    - : ) N/t - alexdelroy November 4, 2009, 4:25 pm
  - truetomyself.... - Hope November 4, 2009, 6:26 pm
- Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 7:58 pm
  - Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - splotches November 5, 2009, 11:55 am
- Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 11:25 pm
  - Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:39 am
    - Re: If we take the definitions we've batted around into consideration - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:31 am
  - YES, Toady! Absolutely! - KatyD November 5, 2009, 2:03 am
    - It is SO not about sex - JB November 5, 2009, 7:03 am
      - It obviously is not about sex - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:24 am
        
        Re: It obviously is not about sex - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 11:54 am
      - Give me an fn break! - splotches November 5, 2009, 12:03 pm
        
        Re: Give me an fn break! - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 7:51 pm
      - So glad my compassion is appreciated - JB November 5, 2009, 12:48 pm
        
        Re: So glad my compassion is appreciated - splotches November 5, 2009, 1:18 pm
        
        Re: So glad my compassion is appreciated - JB November 5, 2009, 2:31 pm
        
        now I understand - splotches November 5, 2009, 3:24 pm
        
        What compassion? - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 7:39 pm
        
        On compassion.... - Hope November 6, 2009, 7:50 am
    - Re: YES, Toady! Absolutely! - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 7:46 pm
For Amyruby - knittingmomma November 4, 2009, 3:32 pm
0 responses
WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - Just Me November 4, 2009, 3:10 pm
6 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 4:15 am
- Re: WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - mtngirl November 4, 2009, 3:21 pm
- Re: WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - knittingmomma November 4, 2009, 3:25 pm
- You let her husband help take care of a sick child. - LC November 4, 2009, 3:59 pm
- Re: WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - Virago November 4, 2009, 8:33 pm
- Re: WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - KatyD November 4, 2009, 11:33 pm
- Re: WHAT DO I DO?? NEED YOUR INPUT FAST!!! - FunSomeDay November 5, 2009, 4:15 am
Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - Mrs Robinson November 4, 2009, 2:58 pm
9 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:37 pm
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - Real Deal November 4, 2009, 3:05 pm
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - TJ November 4, 2009, 10:16 pm
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - sadie November 4, 2009, 11:46 pm
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - FunSomeDay November 5, 2009, 4:16 am
  - Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - Bagpuss November 5, 2009, 6:25 am
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - Hope November 5, 2009, 9:49 am
  - glad - tinganting November 5, 2009, 11:34 am
- So glad you're back!! - 32flavors November 5, 2009, 6:01 pm
- Re: Coo-eeeee.........I'm back!!! - backwardstoad November 5, 2009, 8:37 pm
Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:08 pm
50 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 4:31 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:15 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:18 pm
    - hi everyone! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:22 pm
      - Re: hi everyone! - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:26 pm
        
        Re: hi everyone! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:28 pm
        
        and.. - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:31 pm
        
        Re: hi everyone! - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
        
        you are fabulous... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:33 pm
        
        the emo connection - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:38 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:40 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:46 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:53 pm
    - acceptance - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:24 pm
- Well, HELLO, lil lady... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:29 pm
  - Re: Well, HELLO, lil lady... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
    - Oh sit down and stay awhile? - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:37 pm
      - Re: Oh sit down and stay awhile? - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:46 pm
  - how to work a... - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
    - Re: how to work a... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:36 pm
      - not really - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:39 pm
        
        Re: not really - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 3:38 pm
- OK so.. - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
  - C'mon Ladies... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 2:10 pm
- Ewwwwwwwwwww, GL - JB November 4, 2009, 2:56 pm
  - Re: Ewwwwwwwwwww, GL - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:13 pm
    - FLAG please - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:16 pm
      - Re: FLAG please - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:17 pm
        
        hot or not - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:19 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - acceptance November 4, 2009, 3:23 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 3:24 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:29 pm
        
        thanks, re - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:31 pm
        
        acceptance & GL - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:30 pm
        
        "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - JB November 4, 2009, 3:35 pm
        
        Re: "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:39 pm
        
        Re: "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 12:37 am
        
        GL - JB November 5, 2009, 7:07 am
        
        Re: GL - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 11:56 am
- Hey GL... - upsidedown November 4, 2009, 3:39 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - spinmom November 4, 2009, 7:37 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 12:42 am
- FLAG for het sex in my reply - autumn_mom November 4, 2009, 8:29 pm
  - Re: FLAG for het sex in my reply - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:07 am
    - Re: FLAG for het sex in my reply - autumn_mom November 5, 2009, 5:34 pm
      - oh no! - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 9:40 pm
        
        Re: oh no! - autumn_mom November 6, 2009, 4:31 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - xgirl November 4, 2009, 9:13 pm
- got a question - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:33 pm
  - Re: got a question - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:11 am
HELP -NEED INPUT - blooming_lily November 4, 2009, 1:05 pm
10 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 9:38 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 1:19 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:26 pm
  - Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:30 pm
  - ditto what acceptance said. n/t - amyruby November 4, 2009, 2:13 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - Kid November 4, 2009, 1:27 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:28 pm
  - blooming........ - stumped November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - FunSomeDay November 4, 2009, 1:38 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - blooming_lily November 4, 2009, 2:19 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:38 pm
More on election results - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:31 pm
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
- thanks ayz n/t - curious November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
Question about Dad's weekend he calls - want2bfree November 4, 2009, 11:14 am
1 response, posted November 5, 2009, 7:29 am
- Re: Question about Dad's weekend he calls - meadow November 5, 2009, 7:29 am
Mirrors.... - sweetgirl November 4, 2009, 10:47 am
4 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
- sweetgirl......... - stumped November 4, 2009, 11:14 am
  - Thank you so much for sharing... - Relieved November 4, 2009, 4:24 pm
- Thank you sweetgirl - alexdelroy November 4, 2009, 4:37 pm
  - Re: Thank you sweetgirl - mom23 November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
delete - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 9:34 am
3 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
- I follow you right down to the Catholic thing and wonder - want2bfree November 4, 2009, 11:10 am
  - delete - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 1:12 pm
- and as i am deleting many of my old posts i can't help but wonder. . . - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
qx for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:56 am
51 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:32 am
- Re: qx for Hope - secondsite November 4, 2009, 9:06 am
- Ay - amyruby November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
  - qx for AR - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:20 am
    - I'd like to hear the answer to that question too - JB November 4, 2009, 10:59 am
    - Re: qx for AR - Joanne Fleisher November 4, 2009, 11:04 am
    - Ay and JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 11:34 am
      - Re: Ay and JB - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:48 am
        
        Re: Ay and JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 11:53 am
  - What I wonder is this... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 10:25 am
    - not necessarily - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 10:33 am
      - boi - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 11:58 am
        
        Hey there lil lady... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 12:08 pm
        
        hi boi! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 12:51 pm
        
        Hell yes, is right! - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:05 pm
- Re: qx for Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
  - Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:28 am
    - Re: Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:32 am
      - actually, no - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:33 am
        
        Re: actually, no - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:44 am
        
        I guess, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:49 am
        
        Re: I guess, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:21 am
        
        deleted duplicate post - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:26 am
        
        I have read and reread your posts - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:29 am
        
        Re: I have read and reread your posts - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:40 am
        
        On loving women - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 11:34 pm
        
        deleted duplicate post - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:26 am
        
        I have read and reread your posts - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:29 am
        
        Re: I have read and reread your posts - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:40 am
        
        On loving women - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 11:34 pm
- Re: qx for Hope - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 10:25 am
  - Sun - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:30 am
    - Ayzika - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 11:23 am
  - Re: qx for Hope - onetorn November 4, 2009, 10:35 am
- Re: qx for Hope - Kid November 4, 2009, 11:09 am
  - agreed, kid - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:13 am
    - agreed... - NS November 4, 2009, 11:25 am
  - The cart before the horse. - JB November 4, 2009, 11:44 am
    - and I am wondering - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:46 am
    - Re: The cart before the horse. - Kid November 4, 2009, 12:14 pm
    - JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 12:29 pm
      - AR -- a litmus test - JB November 4, 2009, 2:21 pm
        
        JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 2:41 pm
        
        AR - JB November 4, 2009, 2:48 pm
    - JB: that is the paradox of marriage like relationships - curious November 4, 2009, 8:37 pm
  - thank you for sharing Kid - curious November 4, 2009, 8:10 pm
    - Re: thank you for sharing Kid - Kid November 4, 2009, 9:40 pm
    - "no stone unturned" - ayzika November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
      - exactly ayz - curious November 5, 2009, 8:32 am
- Perhaps we also need - PD November 4, 2009, 12:26 pm
  - absolutely, PD - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:27 pm
  - Maybe we need to call it ... - JB November 4, 2009, 2:34 pm
I am disgusted with my country today - JB November 4, 2009, 8:41 am
29 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:19 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:50 am
  - Core problem - JB November 4, 2009, 9:00 am
    - Re: Core problem - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:06 am
    - Obvious, but ignored difference - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:07 am
      - Re: Obvious, but ignored difference - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:10 am
    - Re: Core problem - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 9:10 am
    - Re: Core problem - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:06 am
      - OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
      - I strongly, strongly, strongly disagree - JB November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
      - This is so true - Virago November 5, 2009, 1:35 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 8:55 am
  - Re: I am disgusted with my country today - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:56 am
    - Re: I am disgusted with my country today - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:01 am
- the only good thing that could come of this - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:18 am
  - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:22 am
    - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:23 am
      - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:35 am
        
        got it - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:39 am
- You are free... - June656 November 4, 2009, 5:27 pm
  - You are not free ... - LifeIsEasy November 4, 2009, 6:30 pm
  - sure we can move to another country - ayzika November 4, 2009, 6:35 pm
  - you are free to move to another country?? - michelle November 4, 2009, 10:34 pm
- There is a way to win when it's voted on - LifeIsEasy November 4, 2009, 6:27 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:28 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - Kid November 4, 2009, 10:18 pm
  - That is SO FREAKIN COOL!!! - JB November 5, 2009, 7:09 am
  - Thank you, kid. - ayzika November 5, 2009, 8:19 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - sadie November 4, 2009, 11:51 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - meadow November 5, 2009, 7:32 am
Dolce - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:33 am
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 9:14 am
- Re: Dolce - Dolce November 4, 2009, 9:14 am
Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:31 am
45 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 8:59 am
  - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:01 am
    - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:09 am
    - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:34 am
      - hypo for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:44 am
        
        Re: hypo for Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:54 am
        
        Re: hypo for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:56 am
        
        Call it whatever you like, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:01 pm
        
        Re: Call it whatever you like, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 12:39 pm
        
        that is exactly my hypothetical - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:47 pm
        
        Re: that is exactly my hypothetical - Hope November 4, 2009, 2:46 pm
        
        Re: that is exactly my hypothetical - ayzika November 4, 2009, 2:55 pm
        
        And it's a real good thing - ayzika November 4, 2009, 2:59 pm
        
        Re: And it's a real good thing - Hope November 4, 2009, 3:33 pm
        
        well, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:37 pm
        
        Awww, Ma'am - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 3:45 pm
        
        you're already doing a wonderful job, boi. - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:48 pm
        
        Thank you, Ma'am - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 3:52 pm
        
        other kinds of stimulation also work - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:53 pm
        
        Check it out, y'all - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 4:30 pm
        
        Re: well, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 5:47 pm
        
        Hope - curious November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:18 am
  - qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:22 am
    - Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:26 am
      - Re: qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:27 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:31 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:34 am
        
        module 1 of the female socialization process - curious November 4, 2009, 9:38 am
        
        Re: module 1 of the female socialization process - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:40 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:42 am
        
        For the same reason - JB November 4, 2009, 9:39 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:44 am
        
        OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:49 am
        
        Re: OTOS - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:58 am
        
        So if it is conditioning........ - stumped November 4, 2009, 10:06 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:19 am
  - i'm so glad y'all are talking about this - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
- What about this... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 10:13 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:53 am
  - No one said that - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:54 am
- There are other options - PD November 4, 2009, 12:37 pm
  - PD: So why the heck is she still MARRIED then? - JB November 4, 2009, 2:43 pm
Just sayin'................... - NS November 4, 2009, 7:57 am
10 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
- Re: Just sayin'................... - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:06 am
  - Re: Just sayin' NS - dancer November 4, 2009, 8:21 am
    - dancer - NS November 4, 2009, 10:12 am
  - Re: Just sayin'................... - karen55 November 4, 2009, 8:45 am
    - Re: Just sayin'................... - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:52 am
      - ayzika - karen55 November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
    - karen... - NS November 4, 2009, 9:32 am
      - Re: karen... - karen55 November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
- Re: Just sayin'................... - Real Deal November 4, 2009, 8:25 am
- Thank you! - 32flavors November 4, 2009, 9:09 am
Ciara - alexdelroy November 4, 2009, 5:53 am
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 10:02 am
- Re: Ciara - ciara November 4, 2009, 10:02 am
Nearly one-third of same-sex couples are raising children - curious November 3, 2009, 10:01 pm
1 response, posted November 3, 2009, 10:36 pm
- Re: Nearly one-third of same-sex couples are raising children - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 10:36 pm
whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - curious November 3, 2009, 9:16 pm
14 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 11:42 pm
- When she said..."You are my air...I am stifled without you...." - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 9:22 pm
  - I had a memory tonight of my first - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 10:45 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - dolphin November 3, 2009, 10:53 pm
  - Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:34 am
    - Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 4:09 am
  - dolphin - curious November 4, 2009, 6:06 am
    - Her words... - sweetgirl November 4, 2009, 8:05 am
- first thing that came to mind - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 8:21 am
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - JB November 4, 2009, 9:11 am
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - ccsgirl November 4, 2009, 9:38 am
  - o0o0o0h yeah - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 11:46 am
  - I'm sorry, but ... - Portia November 4, 2009, 11:42 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - wildangel November 4, 2009, 12:06 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - xgirl November 4, 2009, 9:23 pm

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