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Lawrence v. Texas - ayzika October 28, 2009, 8:30 am
1 response, posted October 28, 2009, 9:36 am
- Woah - stumped October 28, 2009, 9:36 am
JOANNE - Fall Workshop? - KatyD October 28, 2009, 8:03 am
4 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 7:52 pm
- Re: JOANNE - Fall Workshop? - glittergirl October 28, 2009, 9:24 am
  - Re: JOANNE - Fall Workshop? - rosebud October 28, 2009, 9:50 am
    - yes, yes, yes. . .earlier, PLEASE!!!! - glittergirl October 28, 2009, 11:54 am
- Re: JOANNE - Fall Workshop? - Joanne Fleisher October 28, 2009, 7:52 pm
TNT - alexdelroy October 28, 2009, 7:57 am
1 response, posted October 28, 2009, 4:26 pm
- THANKS, alex... - tinganting October 28, 2009, 4:26 pm
re Coming out to CHILDREN... BJ and Hope et al - dancer October 28, 2009, 6:07 am
15 responses, latest posted October 30, 2009, 7:11 am
- A couple of my old posts re all this - dancer October 28, 2009, 6:18 am
  - thank you - obsessedandrestless October 28, 2009, 7:34 am
    - yes, thank you - bj October 28, 2009, 7:48 am
      - BJ et al. - KatyD October 28, 2009, 8:19 am
        
        Re: BJ et al. - bj October 28, 2009, 10:11 am
      - Re: yes, thank you - obsessedandrestless October 28, 2009, 8:41 am
        
        absolutely! - bj October 28, 2009, 10:07 am
      - Well BJ.... - dancer October 28, 2009, 10:26 am
    - I know O&R - dancer October 28, 2009, 9:53 am
      - GOD! thank you so much! - obsessedandrestless October 28, 2009, 10:09 am
  - Re: A couple of my old posts re all this - mom23 October 28, 2009, 7:50 am
    - mom - bj October 28, 2009, 10:22 am
      - BJ - thank you - mom23 October 29, 2009, 7:14 am
        
        Another way of looking at it - dancer October 29, 2009, 8:36 am
        
        Dancer - - mom23 October 30, 2009, 7:11 am
My "nerdy" name! - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:29 pm
8 responses, latest posted October 29, 2009, 8:30 am
- Re: awesome handle... - tennismom October 27, 2009, 7:37 pm
- Re: My "nerdy" name! - Hope October 27, 2009, 7:39 pm
- Re: My "nerdy" name! - obsessedandrestless October 28, 2009, 7:35 am
  - AWWWWW (blush) n/t - pencils4sale October 28, 2009, 4:09 pm
- Re: My "nerdy" name! - ontheotherside October 28, 2009, 11:06 pm
  - Re: My "nerdy" name! - pencils4sale October 29, 2009, 7:04 am
  - Re: My "nerdy" name! - obsessedandrestless October 29, 2009, 7:34 am
    - Re: My "nerdy" name! - ontheotherside October 29, 2009, 8:30 am
This baffles me a bit - Virago October 27, 2009, 7:11 pm
19 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 8:26 pm
- Re: This baffles me a bit - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:21 pm
- Re: This baffles me a bit - alexdelroy October 27, 2009, 7:27 pm
  - Re: This baffles me a bit - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 7:54 pm
    - Hi Scared tobeme - alexdelroy October 27, 2009, 9:44 pm
    - Re: This baffles me a bit - Virago October 28, 2009, 1:32 am
  - Re: This baffles me a bit - Virago October 28, 2009, 1:28 am
- Re: This baffles me a bit - Cindy October 27, 2009, 7:50 pm
  - Re: This baffles me a bit - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 10:52 pm
  - Re: This baffles me a bit - Virago October 28, 2009, 1:09 am
- Re: This baffles me a bit - ontheotherside October 28, 2009, 1:36 am
  - Re: This baffles me a bit - Virago October 28, 2009, 1:38 am
    - Arift will know - tinganting October 28, 2009, 6:39 am
    - Canada - moon 2008 October 28, 2009, 8:22 am
      - Re: Canada - Real Deal October 28, 2009, 9:28 am
        
        Re: Canada - ontheotherside October 28, 2009, 10:31 am
        
        Re: Canada - Virago October 28, 2009, 8:26 pm
- This is where I think it comes from in the US - ayzika October 28, 2009, 8:29 am
  - ayzika - LC October 28, 2009, 3:15 pm
    - Re: ayzika - ayzika October 28, 2009, 3:20 pm
Soling - curious October 27, 2009, 5:45 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 9:05 pm
- Re: Soling - Soling October 27, 2009, 9:05 pm
curious and anybody else who's worried about it - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 5:27 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 5:37 pm
- OandR - curious October 27, 2009, 5:37 pm
LC -- rolled over - curious October 27, 2009, 5:06 pm
3 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 10:22 am
- Re: LC -- rolled over - LC October 28, 2009, 8:59 am
  - exactly LC - curious October 28, 2009, 10:20 am
    - Re: exactly LC - LC October 28, 2009, 10:22 am
An update. . . loan re-fi is moving forward. - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 4:55 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 5:10 pm
- Re: An update. . . loan re-fi is moving forward. - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 5:10 pm
Revealing poll - JB October 27, 2009, 4:44 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 11:23 pm
- YIKES n/t - Roxanne October 27, 2009, 11:23 pm
He's going to two girls' from work's house - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 4:30 pm
3 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 8:29 am
- ttm - stumped October 27, 2009, 4:42 pm
- Re: He's going to two girls' from work's house - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:12 pm
- TrueToMyself - KatyD October 28, 2009, 8:29 am
JB - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 3:33 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 3:50 pm
- Then we agree. - JB October 27, 2009, 3:50 pm
Where is Dina? - LC October 27, 2009, 3:29 pm
2 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 2:39 pm
- Re: Where is Dina? - dina October 28, 2009, 2:36 pm
- Re: Where is Dina? - dina October 28, 2009, 2:39 pm
anyone in the Chicagoland area? - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 3:01 pm
7 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 8:26 am
- Re: anyone in the Chicagoland area? - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 3:32 pm
  - scared.. - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 11:01 pm
    - ME - Roxanne October 27, 2009, 11:25 pm
      - woohooo!!! finally someone close by... - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 11:38 pm
        
        Re: woohooo!!! finally someone close by... - smoothskater October 28, 2009, 7:44 am
    - Re: scared.. - scaredtobeme October 28, 2009, 8:06 am
      - Scared, Roxanne, and smoothskater... - seeking peace within October 28, 2009, 8:26 am
Random question - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 2:44 pm
11 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 9:19 pm
- Re: Random question - Sasha1 October 27, 2009, 2:52 pm
  - Yes!! I have hinted - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 2:56 pm
- Re: Random question - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 3:30 pm
  - Re: Random question - splotches October 27, 2009, 4:25 pm
- Re: Random question - 2much October 27, 2009, 7:32 pm
  - Re: Random question - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 8:00 pm
- Actually I did - Michie October 27, 2009, 8:42 pm
  - I have too - Roxanne October 27, 2009, 11:29 pm
- Re: Random question - smoothskater October 28, 2009, 7:50 am
  - Re: Random question - pcat October 28, 2009, 11:14 am
    - Re: Random question - mystic October 28, 2009, 9:19 pm
Brain sex quiz/from moon - tinganting October 27, 2009, 2:30 pm
6 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 8:28 am
- TNT - tinganting October 27, 2009, 2:36 pm
  - Re: TNT - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 3:24 pm
  - Re: TNT - Virago October 27, 2009, 6:55 pm
- Re: Brain sex quiz/from moon - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 4:14 pm
- Here's mine... - SassyMom October 27, 2009, 9:58 pm
  - "(hmmm...I wonder what would happen if I chose to look at male faces for the analysis..." - moon 2008 October 28, 2009, 8:28 am
Miya - elphaba October 27, 2009, 1:42 pm
1 response, posted October 28, 2009, 11:47 am
- Re: Miya - Miya October 28, 2009, 11:47 am
SOOO sick of the ups and downs. - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 12:47 pm
5 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 4:50 pm
- hang in there GG - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 1:48 pm
  - Re: hang in there GG - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 4:50 pm
- Re: SOOO sick of the ups and downs. - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 1:51 pm
  - Re: SOOO sick of the ups and downs. - scaredtobeme October 27, 2009, 2:33 pm
- Re: SOOO sick of the ups and downs. - 32flavors October 27, 2009, 2:58 pm
Coming out leading to others coming out? - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 11:40 am
7 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 7:26 pm
- yes, my biological mom - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 12:30 pm
- Re: Coming out leading to others coming out? - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:52 pm
- Re: Coming out leading to others coming out? - Keli October 27, 2009, 1:23 pm
  - Re: Coming out leading to others coming out? - mar October 27, 2009, 1:57 pm
    - I thought H was gay - alexdelroy October 27, 2009, 6:06 pm
- a friend I hadn't seen in yrs - red-atomic October 27, 2009, 7:20 pm
- a friend I hadn't seen in yrs - red-atomic October 27, 2009, 7:26 pm
*flag* the most colorful one yet! - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 10:44 am
4 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 11:04 am
- Re: *flag* the most colorful one yet! - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 10:48 am
- *flag* We do it too - JB October 27, 2009, 10:51 am
  - Re: *flag* We do it too - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 11:02 am
  - that's so adorable! - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 11:04 am
delete - LittleAudrey October 27, 2009, 10:20 am
12 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 11:46 am
- delete - LittleAudrey October 27, 2009, 10:23 am
- delete - LittleAudrey October 27, 2009, 10:26 am
- Re: I HAVE BEEN VERY HURT AND BETRAYED BY MY PARENTS - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 10:32 am
  - delete - LittleAudrey October 27, 2009, 10:47 am
- Re: I HAVE BEEN VERY HURT AND BETRAYED BY MY PARENTS - acceptance October 27, 2009, 11:04 am
  - Re: I HAVE BEEN VERY HURT AND BETRAYED BY MY PARENTS - michelle October 27, 2009, 11:07 am
- LA - Consumed October 27, 2009, 11:47 am
  - i love you consumie! - LittleAudrey October 28, 2009, 11:46 am
- So sorry. . . - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 12:35 pm
- Re: I HAVE BEEN VERY HURT AND BETRAYED BY MY PARENTS - Violet October 27, 2009, 1:02 pm
- YIKES - Roxanne October 27, 2009, 1:14 pm
  - Re: YIKES - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 1:55 pm
My husband is talking to our pastor... - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 10:05 am
9 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 1:56 pm
- Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - mar October 27, 2009, 10:35 am
  - Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 10:52 am
- Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - acceptance October 27, 2009, 10:59 am
  - Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - Violet October 27, 2009, 1:22 pm
- Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 11:27 am
  - Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 12:33 pm
  - I just teared up TTM!!!! so sweet.. n/t - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 1:56 pm
- Re: My husband is talking to our pastor... - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 12:28 pm
  - Wow. . . - glittergirl October 27, 2009, 12:40 pm
How to Find a Masculine Halloween Costume for a gender bending son - curious October 27, 2009, 8:47 am
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 8:59 am
- THAT is frikkin FUNNY (NT) - JB October 27, 2009, 8:59 am
LI Gay & Lesbian Film Festival - ayzika October 27, 2009, 8:33 am
12 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 1:13 pm
- ayzika - LC October 27, 2009, 3:24 pm
  - why thank you, LC - ayzika October 27, 2009, 3:31 pm
    - I'm just saying... - LC October 27, 2009, 3:38 pm
- Ya, LC... you are right - If I were a boi October 27, 2009, 3:31 pm
  - Re: Ya, LC... you are right - LC October 27, 2009, 3:41 pm
    - Maybe you missed it LC... - If I were a boi October 27, 2009, 3:45 pm
      - ayz and I - seeking peace within October 28, 2009, 12:25 am
      - Re: Maybe you missed it LC... - LC October 28, 2009, 9:03 am
        
        i know - curious October 28, 2009, 10:16 am
        
        boi - LC October 28, 2009, 10:42 am
        
        Thanks a lot, LC - If I were a boi October 28, 2009, 10:25 am
        
        haha.... my mem is one long m*er f*er, boi boi - curious October 28, 2009, 1:13 pm
A positive note - sunflower577 October 27, 2009, 8:14 am
8 responses, latest posted October 30, 2009, 9:32 am
- Re: A positive note - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 8:33 am
  - Re: A positive note - NS October 27, 2009, 8:51 am
    - NS - sunflower577 October 27, 2009, 9:40 am
  - RD - sunflower577 October 27, 2009, 9:37 am
    - Re: RD - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 10:06 am
  - Re: A positive note - meadow October 30, 2009, 9:32 am
- Re: A positive note - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 8:47 am
- Re: A positive note - mtngirl October 27, 2009, 10:51 am
my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 7:56 am
11 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 4:25 pm
- here are my two suggestions - ayzika October 27, 2009, 8:31 am
- Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - NS October 27, 2009, 8:39 am
  - Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - want2bfree October 27, 2009, 8:54 am
- Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - silentlyexploding October 27, 2009, 9:58 am
  - Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - mar October 27, 2009, 10:39 am
    - mar! (humming here comes the bride)<--inside joke - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 10:54 am
- My initial response... - upsidedown October 27, 2009, 11:25 am
  - Re: My initial response... - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:27 pm
- Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - Virago October 27, 2009, 7:09 pm
- Have you thought about..... - Grateful October 27, 2009, 9:29 pm
- Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids - pencils4sale October 28, 2009, 4:25 pm
Hi - BreakAway October 27, 2009, 6:54 am
8 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 11:22 pm
- Re: Hi - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:03 am
  - pencils, your name always throws me off - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 7:31 am
  - Re: Hi - BreakAway October 27, 2009, 8:07 am
    - welcome BreakAway - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 2:52 pm
- Re: Hi - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 3:17 pm
  - Re: Hi - BreakAway October 27, 2009, 3:56 pm
- Yepp in quite a mess i am! - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:26 pm
- Re: Hi - BreakAway October 27, 2009, 11:22 pm
dancer - bj October 27, 2009, 6:49 am
4 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 1:33 pm
- btw, JB - bj October 27, 2009, 6:51 am
  - I saw it. - JB October 27, 2009, 9:02 am
- TO: BJ...A POST BY DANCER - Hope October 27, 2009, 11:47 am
  - Re: TO: BJ...A POST BY DANCER - bj October 27, 2009, 1:33 pm
Great Gratitude - sailndive October 27, 2009, 5:20 am
2 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 12:38 pm
- Re: Great Gratitude - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:04 am
- Re: Great Gratitude - Portia October 27, 2009, 12:38 pm
hey JB - curious October 27, 2009, 12:45 am
102 responses, latest posted October 28, 2009, 7:53 am
- Re: hey JB - SIGO October 27, 2009, 6:20 am
- Why should I do that for you? - JB October 27, 2009, 9:14 am
  - thanks - curious October 27, 2009, 9:19 am
    - So ... your interpretation? (NT) - JB October 27, 2009, 9:43 am
      - well - curious October 27, 2009, 9:55 am
        
        My interpretation - JB October 27, 2009, 10:38 am
        
        Re: My interpretation - SIGO October 27, 2009, 11:08 am
        
        SIGO - JB October 27, 2009, 12:08 pm
        
        relegating human traits... - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 12:11 pm
        
        Re: relegating human traits... - SIGO October 27, 2009, 12:19 pm
        
        Re: relegating human traits... - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 12:46 pm
        
        Re: relegating human traits... - JB October 27, 2009, 1:21 pm
        
        social construction - ray_of_light October 27, 2009, 2:56 pm
        
        It's about social role - Virago October 27, 2009, 3:22 pm
        
        not to mention her h - curious October 27, 2009, 5:26 pm
        
        Re: SIGO - SIGO October 27, 2009, 12:17 pm
        
        yes exactly JB - curious October 27, 2009, 5:16 pm
        
        grunting and beating your chest - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 11:08 am
    - Re: thanks - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 10:01 am
      - My results for shits and giggles - ray_of_light October 27, 2009, 10:21 am
      - Re: thanks - acceptance October 27, 2009, 11:17 am
  - JB and others who 'get it' ... *flag* - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 11:16 am
- ditto - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 10:26 am
  - Re: ditto - sunflower577 October 27, 2009, 10:34 am
    - It's not the percentages, per se - SIGO October 27, 2009, 11:03 am
      - SIGO - JB October 27, 2009, 11:58 am
        
        brain sex ID quiz - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 12:06 pm
        
        here's mine - tinganting October 27, 2009, 12:30 pm
        
        JB: Do I ID as Butch? - SIGO October 27, 2009, 12:35 pm
        
        Re: JB: Do I ID as Butch? - JB October 27, 2009, 1:01 pm
        
        Re: JB: Do I ID as Butch? - SIGO October 27, 2009, 1:15 pm
        
        The problem with that ... - JB October 27, 2009, 1:24 pm
        
        JB , I just have to ask - ayzika October 27, 2009, 1:25 pm
        
        You people = "non belongers" and "non-labelers" (NT) - JB October 27, 2009, 1:29 pm
        
        excellent question - ayzika October 27, 2009, 1:34 pm
        
        Re: excellent question - SIGO October 27, 2009, 1:37 pm
        
        It's just that ... - JB October 27, 2009, 1:42 pm
        
        SIGO, your response? (NT) - JB October 27, 2009, 1:54 pm
        
        Re: SIGO, your response? (NT) - SIGO October 27, 2009, 2:10 pm
        
        You didn't have to when you were with men - JB October 27, 2009, 2:11 pm
        
        Re: You didn't have to when you were with men - SIGO October 27, 2009, 2:12 pm
        
        The problem with belonging, for me - SIGO October 27, 2009, 1:36 pm
        
        Who said you have to fit into any ONE group? - JB October 27, 2009, 1:50 pm
        
        I hope you see what I'm saying - JB October 27, 2009, 2:12 pm
        
        Re: I hope you see what I'm saying - SIGO October 27, 2009, 2:18 pm
        
        CONTINUED - JB October 27, 2009, 2:42 pm
        
        Re: CONTINUED - ayzika October 27, 2009, 2:47 pm
        
        n/t - curious October 27, 2009, 4:46 pm
        
        JB and Ayzika - SIGO October 27, 2009, 3:08 pm
        
        Re: JB and Ayzika - ayzika October 27, 2009, 3:13 pm
        
        n/t - curious October 27, 2009, 8:25 pm
        
        Portia can have the job - ayzika October 27, 2009, 8:35 pm
        
        SIGO - JB October 27, 2009, 3:15 pm
        
        Just wanted to add - JB October 27, 2009, 3:47 pm
        
        Re: SIGO - SIGO October 27, 2009, 9:46 pm
        
        Re: The problem with belonging, for me - Cindy October 27, 2009, 4:04 pm
        
        Re: The problem with respect is..... - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 5:15 pm
        
        Re: The problem with respect is..... - Cindy October 27, 2009, 6:36 pm
        
        I disagree!!! - JB October 27, 2009, 7:37 pm
        
        Re: I disagree!!! - Cindy October 27, 2009, 7:48 pm
        
        this time around - curious October 27, 2009, 8:11 pm
        
        Re: The problem with respect is..... - Real Deal October 28, 2009, 7:53 am
        
        i'll share: JB's evolution theory - curious October 27, 2009, 5:43 pm
    - sun - rosebud October 27, 2009, 11:38 am
- Re: hey JB - Cindy October 27, 2009, 10:55 am
  - nineteen seventy fecking one? n/t - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 10:57 am
    - Re: ninety seventy fecking one? n/t - Cindy October 27, 2009, 11:02 am
      - whoops - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 11:05 am
        
        Re: whoops - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 11:07 am
        
        Re: whoops - SIGO October 27, 2009, 11:12 am
      - my score - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 11:07 am
        
        Re: my score - SIGO October 27, 2009, 11:13 am
        
        you're too funny moon - curious October 27, 2009, 6:07 pm
      - Re: ninety seventy fecking one? n/t - SIGO October 27, 2009, 11:10 am
  - turns out... - bj October 27, 2009, 11:17 am
    - Group sex - JB October 27, 2009, 11:37 am
      - It was good for me n/t - upsidedown October 27, 2009, 12:00 pm
      - Re: Group sex - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:29 pm
      - Re: Group sex - Cindy October 27, 2009, 12:30 pm
        
        Re: Group sex - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:48 pm
        
        Re: Group sex - Cindy October 27, 2009, 2:38 pm
      - LOL! This was a set up, wasn't it? n/t - SIGO October 27, 2009, 12:36 pm
        
        you walked right into it apparently - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:49 pm
        
        Re: you walked right into it apparently - SIGO October 27, 2009, 1:16 pm
        
        Re: you walked right into it apparently - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 1:30 pm
        
        OandR - curious October 27, 2009, 5:14 pm
        
        Curious - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 5:25 pm
        
        ty OandR - curious October 27, 2009, 5:36 pm
        
        O&R - SIGO October 28, 2009, 6:31 am
      - what? - curious October 27, 2009, 4:42 pm
- My results... - upsidedown October 27, 2009, 11:22 am
  - mine - stumped October 27, 2009, 11:44 am
- My Score - Michie October 27, 2009, 12:20 pm
- Bumping this for Moon and SIGO - JB October 27, 2009, 1:52 pm
  - see above n/t - moon 2008 October 27, 2009, 3:37 pm
- my results...intriguing - Luminous Soul October 27, 2009, 2:15 pm
- 77- masc, 79-fem, 66- andr points.. - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 2:39 pm
- CURIOUS! - Virago October 27, 2009, 3:23 pm
  - V - curious October 27, 2009, 6:15 pm
    - Then it's meaningless n/t - Virago October 27, 2009, 6:58 pm
      - what's meaningless - curious October 27, 2009, 7:02 pm
- My score - truetomyself October 27, 2009, 5:37 pm
Michie!! - curious October 26, 2009, 11:57 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 11:24 am
- Re: Michie!! - Michie October 27, 2009, 11:24 am
cupcake - red-atomic October 26, 2009, 11:54 pm
1 response, posted October 27, 2009, 9:37 pm
- Re: cupcake - cupcake October 27, 2009, 9:37 pm
Two Positive Things - michelle October 26, 2009, 10:54 pm
11 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 2:15 pm
- Re: Two Positive Things - Roxanne October 26, 2009, 11:18 pm
- michelle - curious October 26, 2009, 11:19 pm
  - Re: michelle - michelle October 26, 2009, 11:23 pm
    - Re: michelle - red-atomic October 26, 2009, 11:35 pm
      - Re: michelle - michelle October 26, 2009, 11:43 pm
        
        Re: michelle - FunSomeDay October 26, 2009, 11:54 pm
        
        I think - dancer October 27, 2009, 4:57 am
        
        Good idea dancer - alexdelroy October 27, 2009, 5:17 am
        
        Re: Good idea dancer - mar October 27, 2009, 10:41 am
        
        Re: I think - michelle October 27, 2009, 10:47 am
        
        Let's try it!! - seeking peace within October 27, 2009, 2:15 pm
Hi all! - Michie October 26, 2009, 10:41 pm
6 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 11:21 am
- Re: Hi all! - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 10:47 pm
- Re: Hi all! - Virago October 27, 2009, 1:20 am
- Re: Hi all! - SIGO October 27, 2009, 5:17 am
- That's great Michie - alexdelroy October 27, 2009, 5:34 am
- Re: Hi all! - Real Deal October 27, 2009, 8:42 am
- Thank you - Michie October 27, 2009, 11:21 am
Thoughts on the GF and what I want to say to the H - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 9:03 pm
2 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 10:46 pm
- hope - tinganting October 26, 2009, 9:08 pm
  - Re: hope - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 10:46 pm
Anyone want to chat? - JB October 26, 2009, 8:56 pm
7 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 6:40 am
- Re: Anyone want to chat? - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:58 pm
  - Re: Anyone want to chat? - tinganting October 26, 2009, 9:12 pm
    - Tin - JB October 26, 2009, 9:17 pm
      - Re: Tin - tinganting October 26, 2009, 9:19 pm
        
        Re: Tin - JB October 26, 2009, 9:24 pm
        
        thanks a bunch - tinganting October 26, 2009, 9:27 pm
        
        Re: thanks a bunch - BreakAway October 27, 2009, 6:40 am
in the news: three (3) tidbits - curious October 26, 2009, 8:04 pm
0 responses
Bad day today. - pencils4sale October 26, 2009, 7:48 pm
6 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 7:17 pm
- Re: Bad day today. - ontheotherside October 26, 2009, 9:42 pm
- Re: Bad day today. - SIGO October 26, 2009, 9:51 pm
- Re: Bad day today. - Virago October 27, 2009, 1:40 am
  - Re: Bad day today. - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:01 am
    - Again - Virago October 27, 2009, 3:28 pm
      - Re: Again - pencils4sale October 27, 2009, 7:17 pm
song for today - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 6:41 pm
0 responses
list of old lesbian films - tinganting October 26, 2009, 5:11 pm
4 responses, latest posted October 30, 2009, 9:40 am
- Re: list of old lesbian films - secondsite October 26, 2009, 6:07 pm
- Re: list of old lesbian films - truetomyself October 26, 2009, 8:50 pm
- Re: list of old lesbian films - Boondocks October 28, 2009, 3:50 pm
- Re: list of old lesbian films - meadow October 30, 2009, 9:40 am
Being separated and SEX!! - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 4:04 pm
11 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 11:01 pm
- Re: Being separated and SEX!! - SIGO October 26, 2009, 4:23 pm
  - exactly SIGO!!! - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 4:29 pm
    - Re: exactly SIGO!!! - SIGO October 26, 2009, 9:54 pm
  - ditto on what sigo said... - tinganting October 26, 2009, 4:30 pm
    - great idea~!! - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 4:33 pm
  - It doesn't constitute it in the eyes of the court either. - JB October 26, 2009, 5:56 pm
    - no worries JB... - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 11:01 pm
- Re: Being separated and SEX!! - WyZeta October 26, 2009, 8:40 pm
  - Re: Being separated and SEX!! - Roxanne October 26, 2009, 8:44 pm
    - that's not separated. That's an open relationship. n/t - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 8:48 pm
    - grrrr..... - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 10:59 pm
When love hurts... - sweetgirl October 26, 2009, 4:00 pm
2 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 9:56 pm
- Re: When love hurts... - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 7:50 pm
  - Re: When love hurts... - cupcake October 26, 2009, 9:56 pm
**flag...may be offensive... - tinganting October 26, 2009, 3:55 pm
13 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 10:45 pm
- Re: **flag...may be offensive... - ontheotherside October 26, 2009, 4:10 pm
  - Is it just me? - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 6:53 pm
    - Re: Is it just me? - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:28 pm
      - I'm jealous. what colour? n/t - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 8:36 pm
        
        Re: I'm jealous. what colour? n/t - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:39 pm
        
        the perfect choice - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 8:43 pm
        
        Re: the perfect choice - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:46 pm
        
        If ever, - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 8:50 pm
        
        Re: If ever, - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:52 pm
        
        Alexdelroy - tinganting October 26, 2009, 8:51 pm
        
        Re: Alexdelroy - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 8:57 pm
        
        Bummed, alex - tinganting October 26, 2009, 9:01 pm
        
        Re: Bummed, alex - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 10:45 pm
JOANNE - HPLaserJet October 26, 2009, 3:39 pm
2 responses, latest posted October 29, 2009, 9:45 am
- Re: JOANNE - Joanne Fleisher October 28, 2009, 7:54 pm
  - Re: JOANNE - HPLaserJet October 29, 2009, 9:45 am
I think I've actually done it! - obsessedandrestless October 26, 2009, 3:27 pm
26 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 7:34 am
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - verna October 26, 2009, 3:33 pm
  - Re: I think I've actually done it! - bigbird October 26, 2009, 3:35 pm
    - thanks guys! - obsessedandrestless October 26, 2009, 3:39 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - ontheotherside October 26, 2009, 3:35 pm
  - Re: I think I've actually done it! - obsessedandrestless October 26, 2009, 3:37 pm
    - takes a kicking and keeps on jiggling. - ontheotherside October 26, 2009, 3:45 pm
- WHAT WHAT WHAT!!!???? - JB October 26, 2009, 3:43 pm
  - Re: WHAT WHAT WHAT!!!???? - obsessedandrestless October 26, 2009, 3:47 pm
    - great news O&R - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 3:51 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - pencils4sale October 26, 2009, 3:48 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - Real Deal October 26, 2009, 3:57 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - ray_of_light October 26, 2009, 4:41 pm
- it took almost DYING - obsessedandrestless October 26, 2009, 4:44 pm
  - Re: it took almost DYING - Cindy October 26, 2009, 5:13 pm
    - Re: it took almost DYING - ray_of_light October 26, 2009, 9:54 pm
- dedicated to you O&R - tinganting October 26, 2009, 5:23 pm
  - Well done O & R n/t - alexdelroy October 26, 2009, 6:48 pm
  - Re: dedicated to you O&R - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 7:34 am
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - Virago October 26, 2009, 7:10 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - xgirl October 26, 2009, 7:35 pm
  - Re: I think I've actually done it! - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 7:56 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - WyZeta October 26, 2009, 8:44 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - Roxanne October 26, 2009, 8:52 pm
  - love the lyrics! - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 7:33 am
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - michelle October 26, 2009, 10:42 pm
- Re: I think I've actually done it! - bj October 27, 2009, 6:39 am
hey... - navy18 October 26, 2009, 2:53 pm
3 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 4:11 pm
- Re: hey... - LC October 26, 2009, 3:10 pm
- Re: hey... - 32flavors October 26, 2009, 3:55 pm
- Re: hey... - Scared but hopeful October 26, 2009, 4:11 pm
Sleeping aids? - amyruby October 26, 2009, 2:25 pm
20 responses, latest posted October 27, 2009, 7:40 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - HPLaserJet October 26, 2009, 2:31 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 2:32 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - LC October 26, 2009, 2:37 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - karen55 October 26, 2009, 2:39 pm
  - good answer Karen55!! n/t - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 2:40 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - Keli October 26, 2009, 2:46 pm
  - Re: Sleeping aids? - tinganting October 26, 2009, 2:50 pm
    - No Wine - LC October 26, 2009, 3:08 pm
- Hey AR - rosebud October 26, 2009, 3:12 pm
  - Rosebud - amyruby October 26, 2009, 3:19 pm
- yeah, also ar - curious October 26, 2009, 3:19 pm
- Thank You! - amyruby October 26, 2009, 3:27 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - Virago October 26, 2009, 3:30 pm
  - Re: Sleeping aids? - ontheotherside October 26, 2009, 3:53 pm
    - Re: Sleeping aids? - Virago October 26, 2009, 7:15 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - SIGO October 26, 2009, 4:28 pm
  - SIGO - amyruby October 26, 2009, 6:00 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - pencils4sale October 26, 2009, 7:51 pm
- lunesta is better than ambien - obsessedandrestless October 27, 2009, 12:32 pm
- Re: Sleeping aids? - 2much October 27, 2009, 7:40 pm
Introduction. - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 2:04 pm
13 responses, latest posted October 26, 2009, 8:11 pm
- Welcome - Keli October 26, 2009, 2:19 pm
  - Re: Welcome - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 2:24 pm
    - Re: Welcome - Keli October 26, 2009, 2:39 pm
      - Re: Welcome - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 3:00 pm
- Re: Introduction. - HPLaserJet October 26, 2009, 2:34 pm
  - welcome vasthorizons!! - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 2:39 pm
    - Re: welcome vasthorizons!! - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 2:46 pm
      - Re: welcome vasthorizons!! - Keli October 26, 2009, 2:49 pm
        
        Re: welcome vasthorizons!! - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 3:01 pm
- Re: Introduction. - pencils4sale October 26, 2009, 7:15 pm
  - Re: Introduction. - vasthorizons October 26, 2009, 7:17 pm
    - I agree - red-atomic October 26, 2009, 7:24 pm
      - Re: I agree - scaredtobeme October 26, 2009, 8:11 pm
Open Marriage - truetomyself October 26, 2009, 1:57 pm
1 response, posted October 26, 2009, 2:43 pm
- hey true!!! - seeking peace within October 26, 2009, 2:43 pm

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