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Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:08 pm
50 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 4:31 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:15 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:18 pm
    - hi everyone! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:22 pm
      - Re: hi everyone! - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:26 pm
        
        Re: hi everyone! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:28 pm
        
        and.. - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:31 pm
        
        Re: hi everyone! - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
        
        you are fabulous... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:33 pm
        
        the emo connection - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:38 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:40 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:46 pm
        
        Re: the emo connection - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:53 pm
    - acceptance - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:24 pm
- Well, HELLO, lil lady... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:29 pm
  - Re: Well, HELLO, lil lady... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
    - Oh sit down and stay awhile? - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:37 pm
      - Re: Oh sit down and stay awhile? - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:46 pm
  - how to work a... - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
    - Re: how to work a... - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:36 pm
      - not really - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:39 pm
        
        Re: not really - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 3:38 pm
- OK so.. - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
  - C'mon Ladies... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 2:10 pm
- Ewwwwwwwwwww, GL - JB November 4, 2009, 2:56 pm
  - Re: Ewwwwwwwwwww, GL - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:13 pm
    - FLAG please - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:16 pm
      - Re: FLAG please - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:17 pm
        
        hot or not - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:19 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - acceptance November 4, 2009, 3:23 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 3:24 pm
        
        Re: hot or not - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:29 pm
        
        thanks, re - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:31 pm
        
        acceptance & GL - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:30 pm
        
        "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - JB November 4, 2009, 3:35 pm
        
        Re: "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:39 pm
        
        Re: "straightforward sex talk" could be about gay sex - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 12:37 am
        
        GL - JB November 5, 2009, 7:07 am
        
        Re: GL - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 11:56 am
- Hey GL... - upsidedown November 4, 2009, 3:39 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - spinmom November 4, 2009, 7:37 pm
  - Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 12:42 am
- FLAG for het sex in my reply - autumn_mom November 4, 2009, 8:29 pm
  - Re: FLAG for het sex in my reply - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:07 am
    - Re: FLAG for het sex in my reply - autumn_mom November 5, 2009, 5:34 pm
      - oh no! - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 9:40 pm
        
        Re: oh no! - autumn_mom November 6, 2009, 4:31 pm
- Re: Let's get personal! (beware of straightforward sex talk) - xgirl November 4, 2009, 9:13 pm
- got a question - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:33 pm
  - Re: got a question - greenlilly November 5, 2009, 1:11 am
HELP -NEED INPUT - blooming_lily November 4, 2009, 1:05 pm
10 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 9:38 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - Roxanne November 4, 2009, 1:19 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - acceptance November 4, 2009, 1:26 pm
  - Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:30 pm
  - ditto what acceptance said. n/t - amyruby November 4, 2009, 2:13 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - Kid November 4, 2009, 1:27 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 1:28 pm
  - blooming........ - stumped November 4, 2009, 1:32 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - FunSomeDay November 4, 2009, 1:38 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - blooming_lily November 4, 2009, 2:19 pm
- Re: HELP -NEED INPUT - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:38 pm
More on election results - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:31 pm
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
- thanks ayz n/t - curious November 4, 2009, 1:43 pm
Question about Dad's weekend he calls - want2bfree November 4, 2009, 11:14 am
1 response, posted November 5, 2009, 7:29 am
- Re: Question about Dad's weekend he calls - meadow November 5, 2009, 7:29 am
Mirrors.... - sweetgirl November 4, 2009, 10:47 am
4 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
- sweetgirl......... - stumped November 4, 2009, 11:14 am
  - Thank you so much for sharing... - Relieved November 4, 2009, 4:24 pm
- Thank you sweetgirl - alexdelroy November 4, 2009, 4:37 pm
  - Re: Thank you sweetgirl - mom23 November 5, 2009, 3:43 pm
delete - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 9:34 am
3 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
- I follow you right down to the Catholic thing and wonder - want2bfree November 4, 2009, 11:10 am
  - delete - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 1:12 pm
- and as i am deleting many of my old posts i can't help but wonder. . . - LittleAudrey November 4, 2009, 1:17 pm
qx for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:56 am
51 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:32 am
- Re: qx for Hope - secondsite November 4, 2009, 9:06 am
- Ay - amyruby November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
  - qx for AR - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:20 am
    - I'd like to hear the answer to that question too - JB November 4, 2009, 10:59 am
    - Re: qx for AR - Joanne Fleisher November 4, 2009, 11:04 am
    - Ay and JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 11:34 am
      - Re: Ay and JB - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:48 am
        
        Re: Ay and JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 11:53 am
  - What I wonder is this... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 10:25 am
    - not necessarily - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 10:33 am
      - boi - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 11:58 am
        
        Hey there lil lady... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 12:08 pm
        
        hi boi! - greenlilly November 4, 2009, 12:51 pm
        
        Hell yes, is right! - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 1:05 pm
- Re: qx for Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
  - Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:28 am
    - Re: Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:32 am
      - actually, no - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:33 am
        
        Re: actually, no - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:44 am
        
        I guess, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:49 am
        
        Re: I guess, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:21 am
        
        deleted duplicate post - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:26 am
        
        I have read and reread your posts - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:29 am
        
        Re: I have read and reread your posts - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:40 am
        
        On loving women - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 11:34 pm
        
        deleted duplicate post - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:26 am
        
        I have read and reread your posts - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:29 am
        
        Re: I have read and reread your posts - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:40 am
        
        On loving women - backwardstoad November 4, 2009, 11:34 pm
- Re: qx for Hope - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 10:25 am
  - Sun - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:30 am
    - Ayzika - sunflower577 November 4, 2009, 11:23 am
  - Re: qx for Hope - onetorn November 4, 2009, 10:35 am
- Re: qx for Hope - Kid November 4, 2009, 11:09 am
  - agreed, kid - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:13 am
    - agreed... - NS November 4, 2009, 11:25 am
  - The cart before the horse. - JB November 4, 2009, 11:44 am
    - and I am wondering - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:46 am
    - Re: The cart before the horse. - Kid November 4, 2009, 12:14 pm
    - JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 12:29 pm
      - AR -- a litmus test - JB November 4, 2009, 2:21 pm
        
        JB - amyruby November 4, 2009, 2:41 pm
        
        AR - JB November 4, 2009, 2:48 pm
    - JB: that is the paradox of marriage like relationships - curious November 4, 2009, 8:37 pm
  - thank you for sharing Kid - curious November 4, 2009, 8:10 pm
    - Re: thank you for sharing Kid - Kid November 4, 2009, 9:40 pm
    - "no stone unturned" - ayzika November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
      - exactly ayz - curious November 5, 2009, 8:32 am
- Perhaps we also need - PD November 4, 2009, 12:26 pm
  - absolutely, PD - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:27 pm
  - Maybe we need to call it ... - JB November 4, 2009, 2:34 pm
I am disgusted with my country today - JB November 4, 2009, 8:41 am
29 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:19 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:50 am
  - Core problem - JB November 4, 2009, 9:00 am
    - Re: Core problem - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:06 am
    - Obvious, but ignored difference - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:07 am
      - Re: Obvious, but ignored difference - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:10 am
    - Re: Core problem - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 9:10 am
    - Re: Core problem - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:06 am
      - OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
      - I strongly, strongly, strongly disagree - JB November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
      - This is so true - Virago November 5, 2009, 1:35 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 8:55 am
  - Re: I am disgusted with my country today - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:56 am
    - Re: I am disgusted with my country today - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:01 am
- the only good thing that could come of this - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:18 am
  - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:22 am
    - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:23 am
      - Re: the only good thing that could come of this - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:35 am
        
        got it - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:39 am
- You are free... - June656 November 4, 2009, 5:27 pm
  - You are not free ... - LifeIsEasy November 4, 2009, 6:30 pm
  - sure we can move to another country - ayzika November 4, 2009, 6:35 pm
  - you are free to move to another country?? - michelle November 4, 2009, 10:34 pm
- There is a way to win when it's voted on - LifeIsEasy November 4, 2009, 6:27 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 4, 2009, 9:28 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - Kid November 4, 2009, 10:18 pm
  - That is SO FREAKIN COOL!!! - JB November 5, 2009, 7:09 am
  - Thank you, kid. - ayzika November 5, 2009, 8:19 am
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - sadie November 4, 2009, 11:51 pm
- Re: I am disgusted with my country today - meadow November 5, 2009, 7:32 am
Dolce - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:33 am
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 9:14 am
- Re: Dolce - Dolce November 4, 2009, 9:14 am
Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:31 am
45 responses, latest posted November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 8:59 am
  - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:01 am
    - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hopeful November 4, 2009, 9:09 am
    - Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:34 am
      - hypo for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:44 am
        
        Re: hypo for Hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 11:54 am
        
        Re: hypo for Hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 11:56 am
        
        Call it whatever you like, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:01 pm
        
        Re: Call it whatever you like, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 12:39 pm
        
        that is exactly my hypothetical - ayzika November 4, 2009, 12:47 pm
        
        Re: that is exactly my hypothetical - Hope November 4, 2009, 2:46 pm
        
        Re: that is exactly my hypothetical - ayzika November 4, 2009, 2:55 pm
        
        And it's a real good thing - ayzika November 4, 2009, 2:59 pm
        
        Re: And it's a real good thing - Hope November 4, 2009, 3:33 pm
        
        well, hope - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:37 pm
        
        Awww, Ma'am - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 3:45 pm
        
        you're already doing a wonderful job, boi. - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:48 pm
        
        Thank you, Ma'am - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 3:52 pm
        
        other kinds of stimulation also work - ayzika November 4, 2009, 3:53 pm
        
        Check it out, y'all - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 4:30 pm
        
        Re: well, hope - Hope November 4, 2009, 5:47 pm
        
        Hope - curious November 5, 2009, 8:23 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:18 am
  - qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:22 am
    - Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:26 am
      - Re: qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:27 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:31 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:34 am
        
        module 1 of the female socialization process - curious November 4, 2009, 9:38 am
        
        Re: module 1 of the female socialization process - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:40 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - acceptance November 4, 2009, 9:42 am
        
        For the same reason - JB November 4, 2009, 9:39 am
        
        Re: qx for OTOS - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:44 am
        
        OTOS - ayzika November 4, 2009, 9:49 am
        
        Re: OTOS - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 9:58 am
        
        So if it is conditioning........ - stumped November 4, 2009, 10:06 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
        
        Re: So if it is conditioning........ - ontheotherside November 4, 2009, 10:19 am
  - i'm so glad y'all are talking about this - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 10:17 am
- What about this... - If I were a boi November 4, 2009, 10:13 am
- Re: Is recommiting the ONLY moral choice if you are a lesbian? - Hope November 4, 2009, 10:53 am
  - No one said that - ayzika November 4, 2009, 10:54 am
- There are other options - PD November 4, 2009, 12:37 pm
  - PD: So why the heck is she still MARRIED then? - JB November 4, 2009, 2:43 pm
Just sayin'................... - NS November 4, 2009, 7:57 am
10 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
- Re: Just sayin'................... - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:06 am
  - Re: Just sayin' NS - dancer November 4, 2009, 8:21 am
    - dancer - NS November 4, 2009, 10:12 am
  - Re: Just sayin'................... - karen55 November 4, 2009, 8:45 am
    - Re: Just sayin'................... - ayzika November 4, 2009, 8:52 am
      - ayzika - karen55 November 4, 2009, 10:23 am
    - karen... - NS November 4, 2009, 9:32 am
      - Re: karen... - karen55 November 4, 2009, 10:16 am
- Re: Just sayin'................... - Real Deal November 4, 2009, 8:25 am
- Thank you! - 32flavors November 4, 2009, 9:09 am
Ciara - alexdelroy November 4, 2009, 5:53 am
1 response, posted November 4, 2009, 10:02 am
- Re: Ciara - ciara November 4, 2009, 10:02 am
Nearly one-third of same-sex couples are raising children - curious November 3, 2009, 10:01 pm
1 response, posted November 3, 2009, 10:36 pm
- Re: Nearly one-third of same-sex couples are raising children - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 10:36 pm
whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - curious November 3, 2009, 9:16 pm
14 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 11:42 pm
- When she said..."You are my air...I am stifled without you...." - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 9:22 pm
  - I had a memory tonight of my first - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 10:45 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - dolphin November 3, 2009, 10:53 pm
  - Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 3:34 am
    - Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - Rationaleyes November 4, 2009, 4:09 am
  - dolphin - curious November 4, 2009, 6:06 am
    - Her words... - sweetgirl November 4, 2009, 8:05 am
- first thing that came to mind - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 8:21 am
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - JB November 4, 2009, 9:11 am
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - ccsgirl November 4, 2009, 9:38 am
  - o0o0o0h yeah - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 11:46 am
  - I'm sorry, but ... - Portia November 4, 2009, 11:42 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - wildangel November 4, 2009, 12:06 pm
- Re: whay is the most romantic thing you have heard or can think of hearing? - xgirl November 4, 2009, 9:23 pm
Trying to explain - JB November 3, 2009, 5:52 pm
12 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 2:18 pm
- Re: Trying to explain - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 5:58 pm
  - NT - Michie November 3, 2009, 7:54 pm
- Wow JB, - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 6:03 pm
- Re: Trying to explain - Portia November 3, 2009, 6:08 pm
- Thanks, JB - If I were a boi November 3, 2009, 6:29 pm
- beautifully put JB n/t - upsidedown November 3, 2009, 6:33 pm
  - Re: beautifully put JB n/t - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 6:52 pm
- amazing... - 2CUTE2BSTR8 November 3, 2009, 8:15 pm
- Re: Trying to explain - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 9:04 pm
- Re: Trying to explain - wildangel November 4, 2009, 12:19 pm
  - Re: Trying to explain - wildangel November 4, 2009, 12:20 pm
    - Re: Trying to explain n/t - wildangel November 4, 2009, 2:18 pm
Possibly very silly questions about gayness - Dolce November 3, 2009, 4:46 pm
16 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 8:28 am
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - ayzika November 3, 2009, 4:49 pm
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - Roxanne November 3, 2009, 5:24 pm
  - Not a silly question divorce was hard I knew I was gay - want2bfree November 3, 2009, 5:30 pm
- hey D -- it's good to see you - curious November 3, 2009, 5:55 pm
  - Didn't fall off the planet.. - Dolce November 3, 2009, 10:27 pm
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - backwardstoad November 3, 2009, 6:49 pm
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - michelle November 3, 2009, 8:18 pm
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - dheart15 November 3, 2009, 8:58 pm
  - just wanna make clear... - curious November 3, 2009, 9:03 pm
- Thanks everyone! - Dolce November 3, 2009, 10:39 pm
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - dolphin November 3, 2009, 11:17 pm
  - hey dolphin.. - Dolce November 4, 2009, 12:11 am
    - Gayness - dancer November 4, 2009, 4:43 am
      - Re: Gayness - piglet November 4, 2009, 7:18 am
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - ccsgirl November 4, 2009, 8:01 am
- Re: Possibly very silly questions about gayness - elphaba November 4, 2009, 8:28 am
response to HPLaserJet - Joanne Fleisher November 3, 2009, 4:39 pm
1 response, posted November 3, 2009, 5:54 pm
- Re: response to HPLaserJet - HPLaserJet November 3, 2009, 5:54 pm
Rene30- My Story - 2much November 3, 2009, 4:33 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:31 pm
- Re: Rene30- My Story - mystic November 3, 2009, 5:16 pm
- Re: Rene30- My Story - Rene30 November 3, 2009, 5:40 pm
- Re: Rene30- My Story - Roxanne November 3, 2009, 10:31 pm
I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 4:28 pm
14 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 2:21 pm
- Re: I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - KatyD November 3, 2009, 4:29 pm
- And for those that have gone before......(a few questions...) - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 4:29 pm
  - Re: And for those that have gone before......(a few questions...) - Portia November 3, 2009, 4:43 pm
    - Re: And for those that have gone before......(a few questions...) - mariejune42 November 3, 2009, 5:01 pm
  - Re: And for those that have gone before......(a few questions...) - sunflower577 November 3, 2009, 7:38 pm
- Re: I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - glittergirl November 3, 2009, 8:33 pm
- Re: I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - karen55 November 3, 2009, 8:56 pm
  - Re: I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - Portia November 4, 2009, 12:42 am
- Re: I'm planning to go to Joanne's workshop in April...Anyone else? - backwardstoad November 3, 2009, 10:10 pm
- Hey Sassy...from one west coaster - upsidedown November 4, 2009, 12:44 am
- Absolutely! - NS November 4, 2009, 7:27 am
- Sassy! - 32flavors November 4, 2009, 9:04 am
- I signed up - rosebud November 4, 2009, 2:00 pm
- (no subject) - eowyn November 4, 2009, 2:21 pm
amyruby - LC November 3, 2009, 4:10 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 12:28 pm
- Re: amyruby - amyruby November 3, 2009, 10:14 pm
  - Re: amyruby - LC November 4, 2009, 10:37 am
    - Re: amyruby - LC November 4, 2009, 12:28 pm
OT: Anyone dealt with H1N1? - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 4:07 pm
2 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 4:47 pm
- Re: OT: Anyone dealt with H1N1? - Jackson Jr November 3, 2009, 4:22 pm
- Re: OT: Anyone dealt with H1N1? - Virago November 3, 2009, 4:47 pm
Okay, all you SoCal AJer's.... - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 3:42 pm
2 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 1:04 am
- I'd love to try!!! - Scared but hopeful November 3, 2009, 9:10 pm
- I'd love to... - upsidedown November 4, 2009, 1:04 am
Just talking.... - silentlyexploding November 3, 2009, 1:07 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 5:07 pm
- Re: Just talking.... - amyruby November 3, 2009, 1:19 pm
- that is such a good decision for you! - carrottop November 3, 2009, 3:17 pm
- Re: Just talking.... - mariejune42 November 3, 2009, 5:07 pm
A MUST read!!!! You'll feel GREAT after reading/watching. Guaranteed!! - JB November 3, 2009, 12:47 pm
2 responses, latest posted November 6, 2009, 10:37 am
- Re: A MUST read!!!! You'll feel GREAT after reading/watching. Guaranteed!! - mls1003 November 3, 2009, 3:52 pm
- this makes me happy (n/t) - meadow November 6, 2009, 10:37 am
delete - LittleAudrey November 3, 2009, 12:04 pm
0 responses
Decided to take your advice on the alcohol... - FunSomeDay November 3, 2009, 11:15 am
2 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 4:36 pm
- Who knew one forklift could do that much damge? n/t - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 3:16 pm
  - Do you think he got his cards?! n/t - FunSomeDay November 3, 2009, 4:36 pm
people sometimes expect too much online - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 11:08 am
3 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 4:50 pm
- Re: people sometimes expect too much online - Virago November 3, 2009, 2:19 pm
- ok - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 4:26 pm
  - Re: ok - Virago November 3, 2009, 4:50 pm
My "story" - glittergirl November 3, 2009, 10:44 am
8 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 2:14 am
- Thanks for sharing - If I were a boi November 3, 2009, 10:54 am
  - Re: Thanks for sharing - thelma November 3, 2009, 11:30 am
- Re: My "story" - Rene30 November 3, 2009, 11:58 am
- Re: My "story" - LC November 3, 2009, 1:08 pm
- Re: My "story" - amyruby November 3, 2009, 1:29 pm
  - gg - stumped November 3, 2009, 1:37 pm
    - alcohol - AnneD November 4, 2009, 2:14 am
- Hi GG, - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 3:40 pm
For the Bible tells me so... - splotches November 3, 2009, 10:14 am
6 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:33 pm
- Re: For the Bible tells me so... - Rationaleyes November 3, 2009, 10:16 am
- Re: For the Bible tells me so... - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 10:42 am
- Re: For the Bible tells me so... - truetomyself November 3, 2009, 12:10 pm
- thanks.. - SassyMom November 3, 2009, 3:44 pm
- also good for married gay stories - autumn_mom November 3, 2009, 5:46 pm
- Re: For the Bible tells me so... - Looking Forward November 3, 2009, 10:33 pm
32 - sailndive November 3, 2009, 10:07 am
1 response, posted November 3, 2009, 10:41 am
- Re: 32 - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 10:41 am
Besides the kids - Rationaleyes November 3, 2009, 10:03 am
2 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 2:01 pm
- Re: Besides the kids - amyruby November 3, 2009, 1:39 pm
  - Re: Besides the kids - Rationaleyes November 3, 2009, 2:01 pm
Tasha......... - stumped November 3, 2009, 9:37 am
1 response, posted November 3, 2009, 3:33 pm
- Beck - Tasha November 3, 2009, 3:33 pm
Just want everyone to know (and some messages for folks) - JB November 3, 2009, 9:09 am
27 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 7:44 pm
- Re: Just want everyone to know (and some messages for folks) - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 10:22 am
- No rush, JB - If I were a boi November 3, 2009, 10:28 am
- Re: Just want everyone to know (and some messages for folks) - Gabe November 3, 2009, 10:32 am
- Thanks Moon, Boi and Gabe...and some yakkin - JB November 3, 2009, 11:06 am
  - Re: Thanks Moon, Boi and Gabe...and some yakkin - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 11:13 am
    - Hey. I didn't think ... - JB November 3, 2009, 11:19 am
      - Re: Hey. I didn't think ... - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 11:26 am
      - Tracy Chapman - song "Change" - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 11:42 am
        
        Thanks, Moon (NT) - JB November 3, 2009, 11:47 am
        
        Moon--I almost posted this song yesterday here - Grateful November 3, 2009, 7:41 pm
  - Hey JB - sunflower577 November 3, 2009, 11:55 am
    - Re: Hey JB - JB November 3, 2009, 12:11 pm
      - Re: Hey JB - sunflower577 November 3, 2009, 2:45 pm
- JB - upsidedown November 3, 2009, 11:27 am
  - Re: JB - JB November 3, 2009, 11:30 am
- what was the initial announcement? - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 11:31 am
  - You sure did, man - JB November 3, 2009, 11:32 am
    - Re: You sure did, man - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 11:33 am
      - ray missed it...whoa n/t - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 11:34 am
      - Re: You sure did, man - JB November 3, 2009, 11:36 am
        
        Well - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 12:35 pm
        
        Re: Well - JB November 3, 2009, 1:10 pm
        
        sometimes that helps - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 2:36 pm
- Re: Just want everyone to know (and some messages for folks) - Real Deal November 3, 2009, 11:52 am
- Re: Just want everyone to know (and some messages for folks) - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 2:31 pm
- hey! when you're voice changes... - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 2:44 pm
- JB - Grateful November 3, 2009, 7:44 pm
i made a video for AJ - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 8:22 am
17 responses, latest posted November 4, 2009, 4:14 pm
- Re: very cooool.... - tennismom November 3, 2009, 8:50 am
- Re: i made a video for AJ - ontheotherside November 3, 2009, 9:03 am
  - Re: i made a video for AJ - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 10:00 am
- did you cut your hair? - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 11:32 am
  - mmhhm - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 2:46 pm
- Awe. Thanks. - WyZeta November 3, 2009, 12:48 pm
- Re: i made a video for AJ - amyruby November 3, 2009, 1:33 pm
  - Re: i made a video for AJ - Roxanne November 3, 2009, 1:53 pm
- Re: i made a video for AJ - Michie November 3, 2009, 1:58 pm
- i cut my hair short and gained some weight - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 2:28 pm
- i just realized - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 2:34 pm
  - OAR - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 2:55 pm
    - Re: OAR - mystic November 3, 2009, 5:24 pm
- Re: i made a video for AJ - Virago November 4, 2009, 12:28 am
  - Re: i made a video for AJ - obsessedandrestless November 4, 2009, 9:01 am
- Re: i made a video for AJ - mar November 4, 2009, 6:10 am
- I love your new look! - Relieved November 4, 2009, 4:14 pm
See this film - Kid November 3, 2009, 7:41 am
2 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:35 pm
- Hannah Free - PD November 3, 2009, 8:46 am
  - Re: Hannah Free - Roxanne November 3, 2009, 10:35 pm
thanks everyone - bj November 3, 2009, 7:29 am
4 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 8:45 pm
- Re: thanks everyone - LC November 3, 2009, 8:36 am
  - bj - amyruby November 3, 2009, 3:05 pm
    - yeah - curious November 3, 2009, 7:54 pm
      - wow... that was weird - bj November 3, 2009, 8:45 pm
QUESTION: Have you ever contemplated exactly what it would mean for someone to "get" you? - curious November 3, 2009, 4:36 am
11 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 7:12 pm
- WHY... - bj November 3, 2009, 4:39 am
  - And why are YOU up - actually I can imagine! - dancer November 3, 2009, 4:44 am
    - Re: And why are YOU up - actually I can imagine! - bj November 3, 2009, 5:50 am
  - bj, quit stalling and changing the subject!! - curious November 3, 2009, 5:03 am
    - bite me, missy!! - bj November 3, 2009, 5:22 am
- Re: QUESTION: Have you ever contemplated exactly what it would mean for someone to "get" you? - dolphin November 3, 2009, 5:35 am
  - wow Dolphin, that was superb!! i coulda written most, if not all of this - curious November 3, 2009, 7:12 pm
- I 'll play for you curious - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 5:59 am
- n/t - bj November 3, 2009, 6:55 am
- Re: QUESTION: Have you ever contemplated exactly what it would mean for someone to "get" you? - bj November 3, 2009, 7:08 am
  - Re: QUESTION: Have you ever contemplated exactly what it would mean for someone to "get" you? - mom23 November 3, 2009, 7:28 am
Chatroom security - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 2:43 am
14 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 5:54 pm
- Re: Chatroom security - BreakAway November 3, 2009, 2:45 am
  - Re: Chatroom security - BreakAway November 3, 2009, 2:46 am
- Re: Chatroom security - BreakAway November 3, 2009, 2:47 am
  - ok night breakaway - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 3:35 am
- what happened? - ayzika November 3, 2009, 9:02 am
- what are you talking about? - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 10:19 am
  - Re: what are you talking about? - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 2:21 pm
    - Re: what are you talking about? - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 5:42 pm
      - Thanks for setting up the chatroom Moon - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 5:47 pm
    - alex - ayzika November 3, 2009, 5:54 pm
- Re: Chatroom security - Virago November 3, 2009, 2:15 pm
- Re: Chatroom security - obsessedandrestless November 3, 2009, 3:06 pm
  - Re: Chatroom security - truetomyself November 3, 2009, 4:20 pm
- your browsers are probably not secure - moon 2008 November 3, 2009, 5:39 pm
delete - LittleAudrey November 2, 2009, 10:52 pm
1 response, posted November 2, 2009, 11:04 pm
- delete - LittleAudrey November 2, 2009, 11:04 pm
My gf tonight gave me words to live by.... - Roxanne November 2, 2009, 10:52 pm
7 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 3:16 pm
- Re: My gf tonight gave me words to live by.... - bj November 3, 2009, 4:33 am
- Re: Sounds so familiar... - 2much November 3, 2009, 9:36 am
  - Re: Sounds so familiar... - Rene30 November 3, 2009, 12:12 pm
    - Re: Rene30 - 2much November 3, 2009, 3:16 pm
- Re: My gf tonight gave me words to live by.... - verna November 3, 2009, 11:13 am
- Re: My gf tonight gave me words to live by.... - amyruby November 3, 2009, 1:50 pm
  - Re: My gf tonight gave me words to live by.... - Roxanne November 3, 2009, 1:55 pm
I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - Amy November 2, 2009, 10:12 pm
12 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:41 pm
- Re: I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - sunflower577 November 2, 2009, 10:15 pm
  - Definitely - tinganting November 3, 2009, 6:46 am
- Beautiful and true - Michie November 2, 2009, 10:30 pm
- Re: I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - Roxanne November 2, 2009, 10:43 pm
  - Re: really special message... - tennismom November 3, 2009, 8:40 am
- Thank you - Gabe November 3, 2009, 10:38 am
- Re: I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - Gabe November 3, 2009, 10:48 am
- Re: I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - Real Deal November 3, 2009, 11:50 am
- Amy - LC November 3, 2009, 12:47 pm
- Amy - tinganting November 3, 2009, 3:45 pm
- Re: I don't ever take tomorrow for granted - Croft November 3, 2009, 5:58 pm
- Amy - Scared but hopeful November 3, 2009, 10:41 pm
My daughter broke her arm - truetomyself November 2, 2009, 10:06 pm
11 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:08 pm
- Re: My daughter broke her arm - dem_o November 2, 2009, 10:37 pm
- Re: My daughter broke her arm - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 6:27 am
- Re: My daughter broke her arm - Hope November 3, 2009, 8:01 am
- Re: My daughter broke her arm - Consumed November 3, 2009, 11:53 am
  - Re: My daughter broke her arm - truetomyself November 3, 2009, 12:31 pm
    - Honesty - LC November 3, 2009, 12:50 pm
    - Re: My daughter broke her arm - Consumed November 3, 2009, 1:21 pm
      - truetomyself - LC November 3, 2009, 4:15 pm
        
        LC - curious November 3, 2009, 8:03 pm
      - Re: My daughter broke her arm - silentlyexploding November 3, 2009, 9:48 pm
- TO: truetomyself..please read this. - Hope November 3, 2009, 10:08 pm
tinganting- three little birds. - ontheotherside November 2, 2009, 9:53 pm
10 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 4:51 pm
- OTOS - tinganting November 3, 2009, 6:51 am
  - Re: OTOS - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 7:17 am
    - Re: OTOS - ontheotherside November 3, 2009, 8:52 am
      - Re: OTOS - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 2:04 pm
        
        Re: OTOS - ontheotherside November 3, 2009, 3:03 pm
    - I never knew - tinganting November 3, 2009, 2:21 pm
      - Re: I never knew - ontheotherside November 3, 2009, 3:28 pm
        
        if those bones aren't bad enough, maybe these will do. - ontheotherside November 3, 2009, 3:35 pm
        
        Now otos - tinganting November 3, 2009, 3:46 pm
      - alias confession - alexdelroy November 3, 2009, 4:51 pm
How to come out to your mother - 32flavors November 2, 2009, 8:48 pm
11 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 3:40 pm
- Re: How to come out to your mother - ontheotherside November 2, 2009, 9:15 pm
- sitting beside you in the boat - tinganting November 2, 2009, 9:34 pm
- Re: How to come out to your mother - backwardstoad November 2, 2009, 10:01 pm
- Re: How to come out to your mother - splotches November 2, 2009, 10:20 pm
- Re: How to come out to your mother - dolphin November 3, 2009, 5:41 am
- Re: How to come out to your mother - elphaba November 3, 2009, 6:28 am
- Re: How to come out to your mother - Kid November 3, 2009, 7:22 am
- 32 - rosebud November 3, 2009, 8:48 am
- 32........... - stumped November 3, 2009, 9:53 am
  - PS wanted to also add. - stumped November 3, 2009, 9:57 am
- Thanks everyone - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 3:40 pm
I'm not crazy - am I? - soonbetonothing November 2, 2009, 8:29 pm
6 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:08 pm
- well - curious November 2, 2009, 8:55 pm
  - Re: well - soonbetonothing November 2, 2009, 9:53 pm
    - Re: well - ontheotherside November 2, 2009, 9:57 pm
    - again, well - curious November 2, 2009, 10:13 pm
    - Re: well - meadow November 2, 2009, 10:16 pm
- Re: I'm not crazy - am I? - Scared but hopeful November 3, 2009, 10:08 pm
Self-Loathing - amyruby November 2, 2009, 7:13 pm
7 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 10:49 am
- Re: Self-Loathing - sunflower577 November 2, 2009, 8:46 pm
  - sunflower - amyruby November 3, 2009, 10:43 am
- Re: Self-Loathing - Amy November 2, 2009, 9:57 pm
  - Amy - tinganting November 3, 2009, 6:36 am
    - ditto n/t - rosebud November 3, 2009, 8:39 am
    - Re: Amy - sailndive November 3, 2009, 9:03 am
  - Re: Self-Loathing - amyruby November 3, 2009, 10:49 am
Being new and all... - dheart15 November 2, 2009, 7:03 pm
3 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 9:02 pm
- Re: Being new and all... - WyZeta November 2, 2009, 7:13 pm
  - supportive environment - curious November 2, 2009, 8:16 pm
    - Re: supportive environment - dheart15 November 3, 2009, 9:02 pm
sailndive - 32flavors November 2, 2009, 6:40 pm
8 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 1:55 pm
- Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 8:36 am
  - Re: sailndive - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 9:23 am
    - Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 9:51 am
      - Re: sailndive - 32flavors November 3, 2009, 10:46 am
      - Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 12:04 pm
      - Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 12:05 pm
      - Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 12:07 pm
      - Re: sailndive - sailndive November 3, 2009, 1:55 pm
NT - Amy November 2, 2009, 5:28 pm
29 responses, latest posted November 3, 2009, 5:36 pm
- n/t - If I were a boi November 2, 2009, 5:59 pm
  - Re: Amy, - Amy November 2, 2009, 6:23 pm
    - n/t - If I were a boi November 2, 2009, 6:46 pm
- Re: I need to use you- completely off topic - June656 November 2, 2009, 6:00 pm
  - (no subject) - Amy November 2, 2009, 6:24 pm
- My take - Virago November 2, 2009, 6:00 pm
  - (no subject) - Amy November 2, 2009, 6:35 pm
  - Re: My take - Virago November 3, 2009, 1:50 pm
- n/t - sunflower577 November 2, 2009, 6:36 pm
- Re: I need to use you- completely off topic - upsidedown November 2, 2009, 6:37 pm
- (no subject) - Portia November 2, 2009, 6:47 pm
- n/t - amyruby November 2, 2009, 6:59 pm
- Re: I need to use you- completely off topic - SIGO November 2, 2009, 7:24 pm
  - Re: I need to use you- completely off topic - bigbird November 2, 2009, 9:10 pm
- Amy - carrottop November 2, 2009, 8:58 pm
- (no subject) - Amy November 2, 2009, 9:44 pm
  - Re: I need to use you- completely off topic - backwardstoad November 2, 2009, 10:09 pm
  - NT - Michie November 2, 2009, 11:43 pm
- NT - JB November 2, 2009, 10:45 pm
- NT - Michie November 2, 2009, 11:14 pm
- nt - greenlilly November 2, 2009, 11:47 pm
- nt - michelle November 3, 2009, 12:41 am
- Huh? - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 7:00 am
  - (no subject) - Amy November 3, 2009, 9:06 am
    - Actually, Ray - ayzika November 3, 2009, 10:54 am
      - Re: Actually, Ray - Amy November 3, 2009, 11:32 am
        
        Re: Actually, Ray - ray_of_light November 3, 2009, 11:36 am
- Thanks to everyone. Please Read. - Amy November 3, 2009, 11:34 am
  - Re: Thanks to everyone. Please Read. - Portia November 3, 2009, 5:36 pm
*sigh* First day back in class. Can't concentrate - alexdelroy November 2, 2009, 5:02 pm
4 responses, latest posted November 2, 2009, 9:23 pm
- Re: *sigh* First day back in class. Can't concentrate - Virago November 2, 2009, 5:53 pm
  - Re: *sigh* First day back in class. Can't concentrate - tinganting November 2, 2009, 7:01 pm
    - Virago is right - alexdelroy November 2, 2009, 8:00 pm
      - Re: Virago is right - ontheotherside November 2, 2009, 9:23 pm

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